Time and time again I re-learn it's best to go for the lay the same day you first meet the girl unless it's impossible.. Don't meet her somewhere far away from your place unless it's near her place and you know she might be open to taking you in to her place. Even if you want to start dating her and not just have a one night stand, you should still pull her to your place as fast as possible. It is so much more frustrating and difficult to try to meet a hot girl again before you have sex with her. You might argue that they didn't like me enough to meet me again but that's most of the time not the case and I have eventually laid a few such hot girls but it just took a bit too much effort.
I've had quite a few first dates where I tried to be a good guy and not even go for the pull, only to end up never seeing her again even though we had a fun time and she seemed to be into me during the date. Hell, one girl even gave me a handjob but didn't fuck me and then never saw me again. In this case I kind of understand the reason as I had to swear to her we would only watch a movie and we did watch the movie but then I went for something more...
Also a quite common mistake I make is to be overly confident that after a date I can just send whatever needy-looking messages like "I want to meet you tomorrow" or "when can we meet".. Basically when you're not seeing the girl face to face and you haven't banged her yet, the girl has all the power to play her games and you will look like you chase her most of the time even if you keep it quite minimal..
The what is good text game and what makes you look like a loser rules don't change until you've banged her.
If only my health would permit me going out every night I surely would. No text game or trying to set up a date bullshit required.
Last night for example I ended up at a girl's room whom I had just met at the club and damn near had a threesome. I was mostly held back by my own limiting belief about normal thai girls not willing to do such and being jealous and she was a nice bang so I didn't want to risk it but god damn it they were room mates and most likely would have been fine with at least me trying to go for it. I ended up banging just one of them but I did flirt with her friend quite a bit though and when I meet them again I'll go for the threesome.
Never underestimate how naughty Thai university girls can be! I've done that a few times already... And for a short thing it's pretty much irrelevant whether a university girl has a boyfriend or not.