Best places to find hot thai girls in Bangkok

Best places to meet girls in Bangkok in my opinion are as follows:

There's Speed dating in Thailand - Easy way to get to know nice cute girls face to face and they're cheap too!

Night clubs, except after hours clubs or those in Sukhumvit area. (Full of bargirls)

MRT

BTS - They are shy in the BTS and MRT however but they might give decent eye contact there as they're "stuck" with you for a while.

Any popular shopping mall.

Thai universities. The campuses can be huge. Unfortunately not many students around now during Thai hot season/summer.

City buses? You'd be the only farang using the bus and might just get some attention! Good luck, see you in the middle of nowhere!

Special events that you can find out about on Facebook.

Common player pitfalls

When you've become pretty good at the game and gotten laid with dozens of Thai girls easy, commonly what happens is:

1. You start to objectify women too much. You'll think of them, especially the girls a little below your level as girls to have sex with and then move on. Here in Thailand you can get away with more of that than back in Western countries but there's limits to how much of it you can get away with.
2. Some easy to lay nutcase Thai girl who was too much below your league gets psycho about you when you leave her. She won't stop calling, coming over to your house, or maybe even cause problems like trying to destroy your reputation, stealing or worse. I've had it happen twice so far and I'll be avoiding girls too obviously below my league like a plague from now on even if they would try to jump on my dick.
3. Your ego starts getting in the way of your success. If for example some girl you didn't even like more than for a one night stand rejects you, you still get frustrated. You need to always keep the mentality that if you dislike a girl's personality and only like her body don't expect her to drop her pants for you. (She might anyway). If you have mutual chemistry with someone, of course it's going to be so much easier. Also keep in mind that if you like a girl who you haven't had sex with significantly more than she likes you, it's also not going to work unless you get lucky or have some great lucky timing.
4. You become arrogant in a way that is visible from a distance. Such arrogance will pass once you get blown out too many times because of it.

Always go for the kill

Time and time again I re-learn it's best to go for the lay the same day you first meet the girl unless it's impossible.. Don't meet her somewhere far away from your place unless it's near her place and you know she might be open to taking you in to her place. Even if you want to start dating her and not just have a one night stand, you should still pull her to your place as fast as possible. It is so much more frustrating and difficult to try to meet a hot girl again before you have sex with her. You might argue that they didn't like me enough to meet me again but that's most of the time not the case and I have eventually laid a few such hot girls but it just took a bit too much effort.

I've had quite a few first dates where I tried to be a good guy and not even go for the pull, only to end up never seeing her again even though we had a fun time and she seemed to be into me during the date. Hell, one girl even gave me a handjob but didn't fuck me and then never saw me again. In this case I kind of understand the reason as I had to swear to her we would only watch a movie and we did watch the movie but then I went for something more...

Also a quite common mistake I make is to be overly confident that after a date I can just send whatever needy-looking messages like "I want to meet you tomorrow" or "when can we meet".. Basically when you're not seeing the girl face to face and you haven't banged her yet, the girl has all the power to play her games and you will look like you chase her most of the time even if you keep it quite minimal..
The what is good text game and what makes you look like a loser rules don't change until you've banged her.

If only my health would permit me going out every night I surely would. No text game or trying to set up a date bullshit required.
Last night for example I ended up at a girl's room whom I had just met at the club and damn near had a threesome. I was mostly held back by my own limiting belief about normal thai girls not willing to do such and being jealous and she was a nice bang so I didn't want to risk it but god damn it they were room mates and most likely would have been fine with at least me trying to go for it. I ended up banging just one of them but I did flirt with her friend quite a bit though and when I meet them again I'll go for the threesome.

Never underestimate how naughty Thai university girls can be! I've done that a few times already... And for a short thing it's pretty much irrelevant whether a university girl has a boyfriend or not.

How to not get used by thai girls

There's a wrong way and a right way to go about ensuring not getting used by thai girls. The wrong, but sure way would be to simply never pay anything of hers. This will lead to you not being able to get a lot of girls that you would otherwise get. In this culture you really upset them with that kind of attitude.

Bargirls are extremely good at spending the maximum amount of your money at restaurants and bars. Have sex with them if you want but don't date them unless you don't care about getting used!

The right way is to pay her expenses on a date, but only if it's a real date and not just a meet up with no expectations. If you see she spends money during your dinner or party more than she would if it were her own money, you can turn cold on her and/or ask will we share the bill? If a girl is clearly splashing your money then when the bill comes and she doesn't want to pay I would still pay my own bill only, thus making it a bit of a fight but it has never gone down to that and I've been on so many dates I can't possibly count them.

Let's say you meet a girl from online but don't know her or don't think she wants to potentially become your BF, then you share the bill with her. That is, pay only your own expenses. If there's chemistry and you see it going somewhere, then even if you didn't know her from before I recommend paying the bill or at least offering to pay. But if she takes out her purse to pay her share then accept that. Furthermore if you're going to pay her share, then where you take her is pretty much up to you. Preferably somewhere where you'd eat anyway if you're by yourself.

Some friend girls will try to make you pay their share too especially outside bangkok, but if they are truly just friends you don't need to pay their share. They probably expect or hope to be more than friends with you in the future and thus some of them may turn cold once they realize you're not going to show them a good time for free.

So far I have never given a Thai girl money apart from a 100 baht or such for taxi (and even that only a few times in a year and half.) Unless it was a clearly stated price for a service (sex, or whatever), and for sure you don't have to either unless she lives with you without a job. I have however borrowed a friend girl a significant amount of money and she paid it back.

Try not to think too much about how much you spend on the girls though as it is a turnoff to these girls, but no one wants to be used so use your common sense and judgement about what you want to accept and what you don't. There's plenty of girls in Bangkok that don't ask for your money and are happy to share the bill.

Faithfulness of thai girls and dating values

A Thai girl, or any feminine girl without a strong religion to contain her actions is not going to be
with you exclusively unless she loves you. She is going to be open for flirting or more by other guys if she's not in love passionately. Whether she is in a relationship or not.
But if she does love you, she will probably utterly ignore any message or attempt any other guy will make. Or at the most talk with other guys like friends and stop contact if they start to make a move on her.

Try not to get all butt-hurt about some "playgirls" in here if you're looking for a relationship. Even the playgirls reject far more interesting offers than you ever would if you got the same amount of offers as them.

I believe that in order to be able to keep a girl, your dating value has to be higher than hers.
And by "keep" I mean keeping her in love and faithful. Almost anyone can marry a cute thai girl with money but that girl will be fucking around if that's all she wanted from you.

Here you have far higher dating value than back home. That is why foreigners do so well in Thailand compared to their home countries.

You can be dating and fucking a girl for a while even if she's hotter than you, but she will eventually move on, often sooner rather than later unless you manage to ramp up your dating value while you're seeing her.

Because when you first meet a hot girl she's already probably dating others or gets a lot of offers from guys. You can temporarily display higher value than what you truly have and hook up with 10s even with just good game but eventually she will know that she's the hotter one and wants a new "good enough" guy or
to find a hotter guy than you. Make no mistake. Bangkok is a very competitive place to hook up with the hottest girls. There's a lot of handsome foreigner playboys here. Many of them even live here.

Party girls, egos and to speak Thai to Thai girls or not

Do not open a thai girl with a simple thai language sentence such as sabai dee mai, sanook mai, sawaddee krab.
Not only is what you say quite boring, but this will make you look a bit like a try-hard unless your thai is good enough to follow up in thai language afterwards.
You're better off seeming smart in a language that's comfortable to you and talking English to them and only translating it to Thai with sign-language when necessary. In loud night clubs however I do ask the girls their name "Khun chyy arai?" and age: "Khun aa you taw rai" in Thai language often. Simply because if you try it in English you'd probably end up having to repeat yourself. And it does tell them that you're probably not a short-term tourist.. Although if you're going for a one night stand you might be better off looking like you're on holiday. I'm not sure about that.


I've noticed that many things about girls' actions are ego-based. And if you hurt her ego too soon, you better have a nice comeback. Especially party girls tend to be very protective of their egos. Listening to girls talk with each other superficially on an ego-level about guys when they are out partying is outright disgusting. And that seems to be quite common here with hot party girls. On the other hand you can get a lot of attraction built by hurting her ego.. I have called a couple of sluts exactly what they are.. had a drama talk and they were not only very interested in the drama conversation itself as girls love drama.. but were also more interested in me afterwards. The biggest obstacle for not being able to pull some otherwise slutty girl fast is just her ego.


A lot of the party girls in foreigner-oriented clubs will get attracted but not attached emotionally in most white guys that come to them, they just want to have fun. And thus the more guys that come to talk to them, the more fun they will have. They will be happy to switch from one guy to the next,
not because the new guy is better than you, but simply because he came there. They don't say go away to guys they are even a little bit interested in. Regardless of if they have a guy next to them already or not. They love the validation and attention they get from guys at night clubs and online.
You will often have to quickly get such guys off of the girl when they come (with words I hope), if you want to score one of those party chicks. Sometimes I make the mistake of assuming the guy knows her, better to assume he doesn't. A seemingly slutty girl like that is generally not any easier to lay than a "good girl" because of her ego and "reputation" with friends. And may in fact be harder unless you're a hot guy yourself.

Thai girls last minute resistance to sex

If a girl has last minute resistance to sex, you can try to keep on heating things up a while first.
If you cannot without words make her comfortable with having sex with you, then words can easily change the situation.
Just reason with her, asking why she's scared or such and once you've addressed her concerns and she runs out of logical reasons, she will be more comfortable
and in general be alright with having sex, even if she's very inexperienced.
Typical concerns:
A) "You will leave me after sex." My response: Promise to see her again and such.
B) "I have a boyfriend." My response: Just say something like no one will ever find out. And if necessary, add something like: It doesn't make any difference whether we go all the way or not, you don't need to feel bad. It's not your fault it's my fault.
C) "I would be too easy", or "it's too fast.". My response: It's my fault we are doing this, not yours, and you're not easy. It's normal when a man and a girl are in the same room that they have sex.
D) "I don't want." It's almost never true (unless she's on her period). Girls like sex. The real reason is something else.
E) "I'm scared". Usually because of very little experience. Anyway, just keep plowing through but take it a bit easier.

Sometimes I outright have to show my frustration at their concerns and ask like: Do you want to see me again? If she says yes, then I say something like I'm bored with virgins and girls who are not sexual.
I'm not gonna date you for months before sex, I'm a sexual guy.
3 times out of the last 3 times on a first meetup I have had to resort to this and it worked, after I've addressed their concerns and they still are not letting me take off their pants..

After having dealt with so many last minute resistance situations, I'm quite sure bedding 80 - 90% of 18 - 32 year old thai girls on the first time you meet them is all about plowing through socially conditioned resistance to the idea, at least if you're a decent looking confident guy.
Just about creating enough comfort for it to happen. Enough attraction happens fast and the girl doesn't really have to know you. The remaining 10 - 20% are girls who are quite westernized and are to be treated more like white girls. Not saying there's much difference between the two as far as last minute resistance goes. But often more attraction is needed or the attraction is not all that automatic.

Recently I've had 2 first meetings after getting that girl's phone number per day with 2 different girls pretty often, and at least one of them ends up in sex, often both.
I would not be able to do it if the girls were regulars.. meeting 2 regulars every day would be exhausting but new girls = interesting.
I still get frustrated with some of the more confident, party girls' games sometimes. I seem to get a bit obsessed about getting a girl who is being difficult sometimes as it's not too common anymore.
Getting obsessed is obviously bad for your feelings and your game.